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Breakthrough story!

Breakthrough story!

“The moment you say yes to acting on your desire is the real beginning.” – Danielle LaPorte, The Fire Starter Sessions

I am excited to tell you that so much is going on at Speak Your Inspiration!

I am writing you this week because I have an amazing breakthrough story to share with you.

In the past few months I have had the pleasure of hearing the dreams of many aspiring teachers. I feel so grateful to be part of their path. I want to share a breakthrough story that was really an “a-ha” moment for me too.

I spoke to a woman this week who taught yoga to her mother as she was passing. Her name is Stella.
Her mother couldn’t move much, but she used yoga to help her move easily and simply in her last months.
In honor of her mother she wanted to continue to give this service to the elderly but “didn’t know how” and “felt stuck.”

We were on our weekly call, talking for about 10 minutes diving and into the root of what was making her stuck. After a few minutes I interrupted Stella.

“Do you have a website?” I asked
“No,” Stella said. “I’m not tech savvy.”
“Then how are nursing homes, retirement homes, hospitals and concerned families going to contact you!!?” I continued, “a website will set you apart from the people who just go by word of mouth. Potential employers will be able to go on your website, read your story and see how they can contact you.”

“Wow,”  she said, and after a long pause, “I didn’t even know I was closing myself off like that.”

The energy on the phone changed immediately.

I felt like we made real progress toward her goal. Not only did she see multiple avenues that want her business, Stella saw that this idea could really turn into a business.

But we were still stuck. My not-tech-savvy client didn’t believe she could build a website on her own. And if she did she was positive it would cost her way too much.

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I sympathized completely because I knew how she felt. I wanted a website when first began teaching and asked two graphic designer friends for help. The first one agreed immediately and refused to accepting money.  A month or so went by and he started it, but then never finished the site. My other friend set it up for me but it looked like a blog, not a website. Nothing was manageable. Nothing was ever updated. I emailed him often and he never responded.

So when I first wanted to create Speak Your Inspiration I felt stuck too because I also wasn’t tech savvy.  But my desire to create this community trumped my belief that I could not learn how to create a site. So I decided to pay to learn how to easily create and self manage a website. I fell in love with how easy it was as I practiced, creating more and more sites, and now I am happy to announce I will be offering website creation (that you can easily manage) going forward as part of Speak Your Inspiration.

I have found many teachers have AMAZING ideas and communities to share them with – but no platform to share it on. Having no web presence where you write about what you believe in and who you are prevents you from connecting with other teachers and students who are looking for you.

So if you have a dream, a specific dream, who will it serve? how will you reach them? you may feel unconfident because you have not tried to reach out yet, but once you get moving, get people interested, and get the ball rolling, you will feel better because your idea will be in motion in the world – and not just in your head.

I DO NOT want this blog to be a place where I sell any products or services. My true intent is to hold a community of inspiration and advice. However,  I offered to help Stella begin her website that she can then manage on her own through WordPress. All of the details listed here. It is very cheap, and I wanted to offer them here, once, in case you need help with the tech-stuff. For the purpose of not making this a sales pitch – I will just ask you to contact me at my personal email address: jlynnedaniels@gmail.com and we can discuss further. 


speaking confidently

Lets talk about the idea of speaking with confidence. Throughout my whole life I have had a weird feeling whenever someone urged me to just feel confident. Often it seems to be applied in a very superficial way, with little real help behind it. People will say: “just be confident” or “just act as if you are already who you want to be.” But the truth is that the theory to just “act as you are already” does not work for me. It makes me feel more down, more upset, and more not there – where I want to be.  

For me, being a confident yoga instructor was more about being confident in who I was as a person, than pretending or affirming I was. For me it was a path of knowing who I was and not being shy about sharing that truth with everyone. It does not mean I was once introverted and turned into an extrovert, it means, I was not saying how I felt, I was scared of everyone’s reactions. Once I began to realize that I could trust myself and I could share myself with the world, I was not afraid anymore, of anyone. 

This week, I want to hear about your unconfidence. 

Are you still nervous for half of the class you teach?

Are passing up opportunities to teach – and missing out on delivering your purpose?

Would like more details on how to speak with greater confidence?

Tell me where you are and I promise to help  you, specifically.